Dear Tigey,
We’re on a staycation! And a well-deserved one.
Entry #202 (Aug 10 2025)
Table of Contents
Childhood…
à¶§Â Life
à¶§Â Games
à¶§Â Plushie of the Week #195
à¶§Â Dreams
Life
Phew, I made it to the end of a long week, and I now have a vacation week ahead of me. I still don’t have anywhere to go — I never had the time during the week to do more than cursory searches for cheap last-minute plane tickets (which don’t seem to exist any more except for very short-range flights anyway), and it’s too late for that now. But I save money this way, money that I can maybe try to reinvest in other things that I want to do. What those things are I will leave off the blog for the moment and see what the next week brings.
It is still possible that I find a nice trip idea and go somewhere for a week or weekend too. In the meantime, it’s nice to be able to just lie down and do nothing whenever I want to. Dad did confirm that he won’t be able to go on a trip this year though, and likely not next year either, which I’ve expected for some time now, so that’s freed up some options for me.
In between last week and this one, I compiled and finalized my Edmonton Heritage Festival 2025 post. This one took three full days to do because there were so many pictures to sort through. It’s honestly probably too hefty for a single page, with far too many pictures that a visitor needs to load at once, but eh, who’s counting. It’s my blog and my memories and my reference material for future researchers.
I did mention this last week too, but I decided to skip the Animethon event going on in the city this year as well. I did visit this last year, and it is an expensive event, so with everything else that I’ve done this year it felt more prudent to skip it and save some moolah, especially since it comes so soon after K-Days and the Heritage Festival. There’s also a Fringe Festival coming up in Edmonton but I’ve never really been big on that one, it mostly involves paying to go to performances and watching them in different downtown areas and I’m usually not the type to go somewhere and sit down to watch a show.
Talking about last week, a couple things that I had ordered did arrive really quickly. The first was the Ovente water flasks from Amazon (.com) that I really liked. I had quietly ordered two of them instead of one, and hinted at it without actually saying it because I know that Jon reads my blog (hi) and I wanted to bring one to him as a housewarming gift. More about that a couple of paragraphs further down. They were scheduled to arrive on Wednesday, but instead arrived on Tuesday. The model name of these electric kettles/water jugs is great too — Prontofill!
The other thing that arrived this week, to bring my number of incoming packages back down to 0 in case I decide to go somewhere for the weekend, is the book bag for the Tigey pictures that I also ordered last week. I expected this to take a couple more weeks to arrive, since the size of the bag was custom made and I had to explain the sizes of the items that I needed to fit within the bag so that she knew what dimensions to make the bag in, but nope. The bag, which I ordered from an online shop called OctoberDaysHandmade (local), arrived here from a small town in Alberta on Thursday, exactly a week after I had ordered it. And it was only a bit more expensive than a standard sized bag too, which I consider totally fair, especially since Etsy shipping for most products seems to be free within Canada for me.
I can’t seem to leave a good review for her on Etsy because it’s a custom order, I think, so here’s one on the blog instead. It has a nice button to clasp the book bag (Tigey prints bag now) shut as well. The previous, smaller book bag that I ordered did not have this. This one is a lot thinner too, which means it’s less bulkier, a good thing overall. And the package came with two sweets, a card with a handwritten thank you note inside, a business card (not pictured), and a sticker. Definitely a classy store run by a thoughtful and nice person.
And talking about prints, here’s the one that I picked up from the Edmonton Heritage Festival last weekend. It’s on my blog’s event chronicle page for it too but I wanted to pull it out and feature it on this much less chunky diary page as well.
It was drawn by a young girl named Leya in the China pavilion at the festival, and marks my 8th artist rendition of Tigey and the first one done in watercolour.
On Thursday, our entire family went to visit a home that Jon and his girlfriend had just bought. In case of emergency, it’s not very far from Mom and Dad, who will be living by themselves after Jon moves out in three weeks or so. That Prontofill flask that I bought last week and talked about above became a housewarming gift for them, which is why I was hoping it would arrive by Wednesday like the shipping notification had said, and happy when I found out that it arrived on Tuesday (although like most packages they just left it outside my door without knocking).
Anyway key handover day was on Thursday, so I went to the parents’ place in the early afternoon, and then we all piled into a car and drove there. I think this was just the first time in probably around 15 years that the entire immediate family’s been in the same car. It’s just so rare, with Kel away so much (she’s flying back to China on Sunday this week — Aug 10), both Mom and Dad being in a chronically weakened state, and with me living separately from everyone else. We drove to Jon‘s new house, where we also met his girlfriend’s family, and everyone walked around the house, which was nicely air-conditioned since they apparently had two free days of electricity due to the way the utility contracts worked, and then everyone stood around and talked to each other until it came time to leave.
The house itself is pretty great, with a really nice pantry in the kitchen (I love kitchen pantries!) and the washing machine and dryer on the main floor, and a really nice living area upstairs too. The main negatives about the house that I saw was that the basement was unfinished (although this lowered the price of the house so it was good in that sense), and that it was so large, especially for just two people to live in, that it was probably going to be a pain to clean and mow (although they apparently had a Roomba to help with that, hah.) Anyway they said that they had overpaid for the house a little bit to convince the seller to accept their offer instead of holding an Open House the next day, and I could definitely see why. It was nice. They ended up paying 540k for it. Its previous sell price was apparently 450k back in 2007.
In terms of my own house search, I haven’t had anything come up but I have noticed a number of houses now sitting on the market within or a little above my price range and in my ideal neighbourhood, all of them aging past 1 week and into 2 weeks or more now without selling. I complained about the “finished basement” house two weeks ago in my blog post, that’s still sitting there at 400k in a place that I wouldn’t mind buying it at, but I refuse to because of the basement and a couple of other things like the principle of it all. The overpriced 299k condo townhouse that went into Pending that week, also came out of Pending this week and back into an Open status, which means whoever bid on it decided to reject it in the end! What a red flag. Though it might just be that they also realized that the market might be cooling down and suddenly there are a few other options sitting around.
There’s another house just north of Southgate Mall, and two east of it, that have been sitting for some time too. The one just north of me, on the main road across from Southgate Mall, has been on the market for 33 days now. It’s also been into Pending at least once and then out again without the sale closing. The two east of the mall are well within my price range as well, but I don’t like either one. Then there’s five west of it and four south of it that have all been sitting for some time now as well but those ones are between 25k to 175k or so outside my price range. They’d more have been in Jon and his girlfriend’s price range. But even though I can’t specifically buy those, I’m hoping that they apply a downward pressure on the prices in the area. Or maybe my streaming activities will randomly provide me $100k next year so I can afford one of those houses. As if.
Earlier in the week, I took a long walk around the neighbourhood, going first to the Italian Centre near Southgate before walking all the way to the T&T Supermarket at South Park for my Asian grocery fix. The T&T visit was fairly normal, however the reason I had penned in a visit to the Italian Centre was so that I could look for a nice brand of olive oil. I had mentioned a few weeks ago that I had a nearly-empty olive oil bottle that needed replacing now that I was making ham and eggs almost every day, and then the week following that I mentioned that I had seen a site listing awards for the best olive oil in the world. Well, I figured that of all the stores around me, the Italian Centre would probably have a couple of those in stock, and I was right!
I ended up splurging slightly for a $19 bottle of branded olive oil named Frantoi Cutrera:
Now, that’s not exactly the one on the list (local), it’s Première instead of Primo, but that Primo one apparently is only made from September/October olives and I wasn’t waiting that long to eat ham and eggs again. Plus this one’s won its own awards too:
Whatever “gold medal medium” means. I’m not sure its made much of a difference in my cooking since I only use a bit of it for every meal, but it was a fun rabbit hole to go down nonetheless. It definitely didn’t win any awards for its bottle though, the cap on the bottle absolutely sucks and does not even close properly. When I try to turn the cap shut, it “pops off” at the very end instead of gripping on to the bottle, and continues being able to be turned on its last rotation around the rim forever. So it just sits on my counter with a slightly loose cap.
Lastly, and arguably most importantly, something very significant happened midweek — Eileen had been back to Singapore and had reached out to some old friends from Rosyth School, the primary school where we went to for Primary 4-6 after we joined the Gifted Education Programme at the end of Primary 3. She arranged a meetup with them, where one thing led to another, and she ended up creating a WhatsApp group for everyone as well. I was invited to that and joined it, did my usual awkward “hi, I transitioned!” introduction, and then spent the rest of the week catching up with everyone else, listening to stories and swapping memories and pictures old and new.
That was very much a blast, even though there were several people there that I barely recalled at all, or at least did not have a face to put to a name at all. I did update my Rosyth roster in My Diary #058 a little bit more, adding a few more notes and teacher names, and I also secured permission to add a few other group pictures to the blog post, although I have not done that as yet. However, these gave me visual pictures of about easily half a dozen people whose faces I had completely forgotten about, and that was a very precious memory to re-discover. I was also inundated with people’s nostalgic memories of primary school life and that was an incredible read-through, since everyone had different core memories and trauma to share. I’m not sure if I’ll compile those here in a Memory Snippet segment at some point. I might. But not this week. I did also edit one minor memory in My Diary #124, adding the name of the flower involved in that memory that someone namedropped this week, as well as My Diary #095, adding a bit of detail to a memory there that Eisen brought up this week too.
I ended up talking to a few people both in the group chat as well as one-on-one on the side, especially Teresa, someone who I knew from afar but had never really connected with back in primary school. I’d say chances are good that we’ll do a meetup at some point over the next couple years, either in Vancouver or in Hong Kong, possibly even both. I’m looking forward to that!
i also learnt that Gee Yong was a director of a government branch now, according to this article (local), which I don’t think had happened yet the last time we spoke briefly. I might have edited My Diary #084 with that info. I’m super happy for him! I had such good times with him growing up, until my family moved to Canada. He was such an awesome best friend. I told Mom and Dad about him and they said they remembered him and were happy to hear this too.
Finally, to round out this Life section as always, here are some pretty evening sunset pictures I took from the comfort of my apartment.
First, one from Mon Aug 04, at 8:52 pm.
Then, Tue Aug 05, at 9:13 pm.
And finally, Fri Aug 08 at 8:17 pm.
The first two are similar, in that they’re golden and blue-white streaks smeared across the sky in different colourful combinations. The third features beams of light shining through a hole in the clouds that looks like the gaping maw of a creature. Imagined nubilous horrors aside, it’s such a peaceful sight to see from my computer desk on many evenings.
What’s not that peaceful of a sight is seeing some young punks vandalize the carpark next to Southgate Centre in full view of the apartment blocks we live in. Though I mostly noticed them on Saturday evening because they lit some small fires as well (as part of the painting process?) and those flashes caught my eye. I didn’t want a repeat of another carpark fire so I called the Southgate Centre security to alert them and they said they’d send someone over but no guard ever appeared up top, though they might have gotten yelled at from below or something as they were all leaning against the railing and looking out towards the mall after they finished. They sauntered out without incident or confrontation in the end though, heading towards the bus terminal and LRT Station. Nonetheless, I did snap some pictures (and a video) of them at 10x grainy zoom with my phone:
Games
I finished Prey this week on stream, just in time for a stream pause to kick in as Satinel works on a game jam and I try to find either a place to go to or some ways to self-improve myself. Prey was fine.. I did not really like the endings though, and I feel like one of the NPCs bugged out and died when she should not have, and that made no sense. Stream will start up again around August 22 or 23, and we’ll start playing Outer Wilds the first weekday after that.
Off-stream, it was mostly daily runs of Umamusume: Pretty Derby and Backpack Battles. My concentration hasn’t quite been there to start up a new game, especially since I’ve been uncertain if I want to travel somewhere or not. And even if I don’t, I don’t want to spend the staycation only playing games. As always though, we’ll see.
I did want to give a shout out to the devs of a game called The Crazy Hyper-Dungeon Chronicles. I had made a video last week of me playing through their Steam demo, and despite all its flaws and my terrible playing and nonexistent audience reach, they liked it enough that they reached out and offered a full game key to thank me for playing and making a video on it and for finding a bug in the game. That was super cool of them, and so they get a shoutout here too. The game demo was incredibly funny and I will almost certainly play the game at some point once it is fully released, though it remains to be seen if I will do it online or offline.
Plushie of the Week #195
When I went to my parents’ apartment this weekend, Kel was there and she was packing stuff into a toiletries bag with this guy hanging from his keychain. “Hey!” I said. “Isn’t that GEORGE?” “Nay!” Kel replied, “But basically yes.”
All that’s paraphrased, but George was a keychain plushie thing that was part of a Kipling bag that Kel had a long time ago, and who had followed us to Canada all the way to Singapore as part of the original plushie crew. This one was named Dries, and was a very similar monkey to George, colour-wise and build-wise, but had a different nametag on him. Cute. Anyway, Tigey immediately conscripted him for his army and I took a couple of mugshots to make sure we had shots of him in his pristine form.
Front (and tag front):
Back:
Tag back:
Dreams
Aug 04 2025
- I was downtown late in the evening with Mom, and I think Jon and Kel were there in some scenes too as it oscillated between a 2-person and a 4-person scene at times. We settled on an outdoor Chinese restaurant to eat at, and the moment we sat down my meal arrived, before I had even taken a look at the menu. This was obviously someone else’s meal, who had ordered it to this seat and then left before the meal came. But it was a nice, large bowl of bee hoon with some fish cake sides, and a drink, so I was happy with that meal and accepted it as my dinner anyway.
- Near the end of my meal, the owner of the store, an older Chinese lady, came by with the bill and I saw that it had come to something around $200 of the local currency since it was a double helping of the meal and had other things like toppings and sides attached to it. It was expensive but not overly so, and I tipped them a little bit too so it came to $230.
- When I actually finished the meal though, the son of the owner came along and said that they hadn’t actually charged for the fish cake sides properly, and the drink as well, and added another $100 to the bill. He also mistook the original $230 as a tip of its own, so he added on the original agreed-upon price of $230 to the $100 and then added on another $230 as the tip so my total came to $560. He bragged to his mom that he had mnade the restaurant an extra $100 profit.
- I said that if that was the final price, I would pay it, but then I would return home and perform a chargeback on my credit card and claim back all the money so they were left with nothing, and I would give them a bad review on my blog and never return here again. He started arguing with me and I ignored him. On the way out, we stopped by the counter and his mom was there to refund the difference and apologize for his son’s behaviour.
- My Mom took the cash on my behalf, pulling out a couple of crisp, red $100 notes and some smaller change from an envelope that the owner handed her. Mollified, we then left as I said that I would return at some point.
- After we left, I said I wanted to wander around more and Mom said she would head home on a bus first as it was now past midnight. We parted ways, and I think both Jon and Kel followed her too. I made a two-line note in Discord for Kel, but I accidentally put it in the food channel of my main Discord server, where Kynji was busy typing up something, so I quickly deleted the lines so they wouldn’t be in the middle of her sentences and sent the notes to Kel over the right chat app.
- I went to an area downtown where there were Lotro raids, and I saw that Seo was leading a large raid group of about 24 to 30 people, including some Singapore-era friends. They had just finished a PvE raid and were going to the Ettenmoors for some PvP, so I decided to tag along as a supporting friend, though I didn’t specifically join them since the raid was full.
- Seo gathered the raid group at the bottom of the stairs leading up to the safe spawning area in the PvP zone, to wait for stragglers in his own raid to teleport here and muster up. Channeling both the vulnerability of my minstrel healer as well as the cuteness of Mayano Top Gun from the Umamusume game, I stood at the top of the stairs, laid a sled down diagonally on it, and then slid all the way down the stairs, past the raid group and out into the open PvP zone.
- As expected, this caused a couple of invisible, stealthed warg players who were watching Seo‘s raid group to immediately attack me. But I was also a good self-healer, and my minstrel had a small shield that I could block with as well, so I did a dance back toward the safety of the stairs while keeping myself alive at 20% health or so as the wargs desperately tried to finish me off. To no avail, as the people gathered at the stairs saw what was happening and rushed over to murder the warg spies and save me.
- Dusting myself off, I suggested to Seo that instead of PvP here in the Moors, we attached the downtown area that I was just at to this zone and went off that way to look for some action instead. That downtown zone, when created as a PvP map, had several tough PvE bosses to kill too, and Seo‘s group had just finished some PvE raids themselves so they were still quite raid-oriented and geared for it, so he agreed.
- There was a large raid of Lotro player monsters roaming around the maps but we avoided them and made for a building in the zone where we knew a boss was. This building was a single large room with two doors, a front door which had a doorknob on it and a back door which was controlled by a Canadian-style window crank.
- I realized that the door worked as an effective bottleneck, especially since I could lock the doorknob, and then hold the door shut while everyone inside fought the boss. Even if the enemy raid were to come, only one person at a time could try to open the door. Xuanjie took the back door and held the crank shut while I took the front door and held that shut in preparation for people trying to get in.
- Eventually I felt someone trying to open the door, and I held it shut against them. But a nagging doubt crept into my mind that this might be other friendly stragglers trying to get in too, and trapping them outside might mean that they get slaughtered by enemies. I requested someone to come look through the peephole of the door to see who was trying to get in, since I was holding the doorknob in such a way that I couldn’t look through it myself, but no one was forthcoming.
- I decided to just open the door as I felt like that wasn’t the large monster raid outside. It turned out to be a single minotaur, standing slightly taller than the door, and looking quite puzzled as to why the door was locked and why he couldn’t get in. This one wasn’t a player, but another boss, and he stepped in once the door opened, at which point Seo‘s raid turned around and defeated him too. This was a good thing overall since his presence outside had been rather conspicuous and would have been a sign for sharp-eyed enemies that something was going on in this location.
- I then closed and locked the door again, while Seo‘s raid turned their attention back to the main boss. Eventually I felt someone trying to open the door again, and this time I knew that the main monster raid had arrived. I held on to the locked doorknob for dear life and managed to stop them from opening it, so they were all stuck outside. I also requested someone’s help to look through the peephole again, but again no one volunteered until I threatened to let the monsters in if no one helped. Someone then came by and narrated what he saw through the peephole.
- Eventually, Seo‘s raid finished the boss and he lined everyone up in five long columns, facing the front door that the creeps were still trying to get in through. He arranged four raid rewards on the ground, they were little passport-sized books and each one was a different mix of dark shades of red and blue. He then gestured to me to step aside and let the door open.
- Finally wrenching the door open, the raid of monster players nonetheless stopped short and stared dumbfounded at the books on the ground once the door opened. They were expensive and rare raid rewards, especially on the monster player side since they were actual player raid rewards. The monsters started to feud with each other and Seo took that chance to charge his own raid group out like a column of death, wiping them all.
- Seo‘s raid then moved on further into downtown. I didn’t feel like I wanted to play any more, since it was 3 am and my eyes were feeling prickly, so I was one of those stragglers. I chatted to Xuanjie as we packed up and moved off in another direction toward the bus stop instead. I said that the night had been lots of fun, although I wish we had played night tag before. I had the chance to play that once back at an overnight summer Math camp when I was young, and I had missed it ever since then. I also checked with Mom and found out that she had returned home safely.
- We also saw some patch notes about the game removing doors and locks soon, as several groups had apparently been abusing that mechanic in PvP locations similar to the room that we were in, over the past month or so. Some examples were listed in the patch notes, though our group was not among them. I thought that I had come up with that defensive technique by myself, but it made sense that it had been employed by other groups too. I was just glad that I had the chance to try it before they patched it out.
Aug 05 2025
- I was training or building large, flat digital cards that I could see floating in front of me if I brought up the UI. These cards had distance aptitudes like in Uma Musume, but otherwise were not really related.
- We could earn skills for those cards by doing things in the game world, and a friend and I, who were both Engineer class players, were searching for some matching cars with certain qualities late at night so that we could upgrade our cards.
- We were searching for said items on a street while avoiding police. But we were also part of a larger group of people, led by a female player, who were on another street dealing with the police. Two other girls from the main group were initially following the two of us around as well, but after a while they inquired why we weren’t helping out with the police incident on the other street.
- My friend told them that we were engineers, and that we were trying to level up our skills by finding suitable cars so that we could develop better skills to help in the longer-term. The other two, who were not engineers, then left us, with the younger of the two girls pouting heavily since we weren’t dropping everything to go help the leader and main group now.
Aug 06 2025
- Jon and I took part in a golf tourmanent that I don’t remember the details of except that the grass was a very vivid shade of green. After that, we visited what seemed to be a strip club together with Kel, except it was set in a one-room Singapore-style apartment. We didn’t partake in the risque stuff though, and mostly sat or laid around in a circle, chatting to each other plus one of the girls there while the owner stood around nearby and watched on.
- The girl was holding a bolster with keypad-style buttons on it that allowed people that interacted with her to press them and gain points when they touched it. But she could not use it herself as that was how the bolsters were designed, and that sacrificial nature was apparently part of her job. Nonetheless, I inquired if I was allowed to take and hold one of the bolsters from the closet too so that she could use mine instead, and she said yes.
- Jon and I also briefly kicked around a half-deflated football, and the owner asked if we watch soccer, and then if we knew the score of the Manchester United game that was played today. Jon told him that the score was 1-1 when we left the house late in the game, and that the opponent team, from Holland, had a few players injured at that point. We looked it up online and the final score was 4-1 for Manchester United.
Aug 07 2025
- Snippet: All I remember is walking past a neighbourhood in a town with someone, and there was a house that was potentially for sale there but it was locked out from being purchased somehow. To unlock it, I had to drop a gun item that I had looted into a slot in front of the house, although I was not even sure in the end that the person I was with wanted to look at this specific house.
Aug 08 2025
- Snippet: I was walking along a long alleyway with a couple of friends. It kind of felt like we were on rails, like we weren’t allowed to go back the way that we came from, only forwards. We could interact with things that we passed by in order of their appearance, although I don’t remember the details on how. I do remember that we had levels and upgradable skills, but that as far as I recall there was no combat.
Aug 09 2025
- Snippet: I remember one scene where there were 15 identical nameplates in a room for some reason and pressing a button on the wall activated all of them at once so that they all lit up.
- Snippet: There was another scene where I was walking along a school corridor and saw a boy with a short sword, barely managing to fend off a giant, yellow-striped spider that was trying to jump on him. The spider’s height came up to his knees and it was about the same length and width as that height as well. I called out to him and told him that there was a security conference nearby being held by Tyler P and Michael, and to bring the spider there as they would help him deal with it. He backed away from the spider toward the lecture theatre door while fending it off, opened it up and entered it, and the attendees of the conference indeed killed the spider for him with their weapons.
Aug 10 2025
- I was stuck in an elevator with Mom, Dad, Jon, and a man with an adult tiger as a pet. The tiger was fairly docile, to the point that Jon even stuck his head in the tiger’s mouth at one point to look inside of it, a move that I chastised him for.
- I called the elevator operators to tell them that we were stuck, and they asked if the lift was in imminent danger of collapse. I looked up through an access hole in the ceiling of the elevator and then said no, the cords looked steady, though the elevator was swinging slightly. Mentally I blamed the tiger’s extra weight for getting the elevator stuck. I then chatted to Kel over the phone while we waited for rescue.
- We waited around for a bit, until a firefighter on a rope suddenly descended. He grabbed me around the waist and started pulling me up as I pulled out both Tigey as well as a phone, the former to make sure he was with me and safe as well, the latter so I could grab a picture on the way up.
- Once at the top, I thanked the firefighter and he nodded and said that he hoped to finish the rescue within 10 minutes because he had a town defence in some online game that he was playing to attend. Jon came up next and then my parents soon after, and Mom reported that there were two different rescuers deployed after they did my initial rescue to make sure it worked, and she saw the other one going down on a separate rope as she was coming up on hers.
- I wondered how they were going to get the tiger out and whether they would do that first or do its owner first, as not seeing its owner around might agitate it. I guessed they would just sedate the beast and bring it out via a rope around its waist or something.
- After the rescue, we went to a nearby supermarket. Mom and Dad went in to do some shopping while Jon and I waited outside, under a covered walkway next to some talkative teenage girls. We watched them line up at the back of the cashier line and I told Kel at that point that we were coming home soon.