Dear Tigey,
Well we were supposed to have snow this week, and on at least three separate days the phone popped up with a “Snow possible in the next hour” notification — but nothing! Bwahahahahaha… safe. (In the meantime, Calgary got hammered with snowstorms. Nyahahahahaha… sorry to hear.)
Entry #185 (Apr 06 2025)
Table of Contents
A red sun sets over…
ට Life
ට Games
ට Plushie of the Week #180
ට Song of the Week #157
ට Memory Snippet of the Week #164
ට Dreams
Life
Despite it not snowing this week, this week was chillier than last week, which made me want to stay at home. I know that next week is forecast to be much nicer though. Next, one of my workmates was also off work for most of the week, so I took over his queue monitor duties, which left me with less free time both during the lunch hour as well as after work, as queue monitor duties tend to spill over into the evenings too. Also, I had a headache in the middle of the week, and that made me not really want to do anything. That reads as a long list of excuses, but basically I had itchy feet the entire week and wanted to go out and do stuff, yet I kept finding various reasons to end up not doing so. I still did go out a bit though, mostly on Monday to meet Dad, and Friday for a long lunch walk, with a bit of additional grocery shopping on Tuesday.
On Monday, I met my Dad at Southgate Mall because he texted me to tell me that he was going there to buy some groceries and look over The Bay’s liquidation sale there. I had told him the last time we met to let me know when he was going down there so I could pop by and hang out with him at lunch. We walked around to the Dollarama dollar store, The Bay where he wanted to look for pillows but we only found grossly overpriced ones and thus ended up buying nothing, Safeway for a couple of groceries and deli food, and then to the food court where he bought some lunch.
We then sat down to chat for a bit as our wrapped up food grew cold, as neither of us had actually planned to eat at the mall. Among other things, our chat spawned what turned out to be the story for my Memory Snippet of the Week segment below, as well as me finding out that he was a lot more amenable to going back down to Singapore together at some point this year for what likely will be his last trip ever to Asia. That won’t be for a while though as he needs to go through an eye surgery first, and then a couple months of recovery from that, so if it does happen it will be at some point in the latter half of the year.
Excitement levels building though, whether I have to go by myself or not.
Tangentially, while on the topic of travelling, I also would like to visit various towns around my province, though I’m not sure exactly when I will do this yet. In particular, I plan on visiting Drumheller, northeast of Calgary, where there is a famous dinosaur museum, and maybe I will even swing back to Banff to the west of Calgary or Jasper to the west of Edmonton again. That would mean an overnight stay or two somewhere, in Banff or Drumheller or in Calgary itself. There’s no direct bus service from Edmonton to Drumheller though — the direct buses to that place are largely from Calgary, so it will mean either a bus or flight down there and then making my way from there to Drumheller.
But I digress, and there are several things that need to happen before I can go anywhere and do anything. I’m still watching houses but nothing interesting has come up lately. The house that Dad and I went to see two weeks ago, and which had “5 other bids on”, was originally listed for 375k but has already gone into sold status for 410k. After a little over two weeks from when they were first listed on the market. Did they even do an inspection? That went very fast, and for so much over the asking price. Very discouraging, and I hope the housing market crashes soon.
Double tangentially, on the topic of housing, my old realtor also sent out a mass text this week announcing that he was looking for referrals for more commissions, and would give a bonus to people who referred clients to him depending on how much the closed home sale was worth. Ehhh. Didn’t like you, wouldn’t refer people to you.
But my train of thought is far enough off track now. Back to Monday we go, and here are a couple of pictures from The Bay on Monday when I went a-wandering with Dad. At that point, prices were still “15% to 40%” off. This first one was from the second floor.
And this is my usual spot on the third floor.
I actually went back to The Bay on Friday as well, during my lunchtime walk, and I discovered that all the liquidation signs had levelled up slightly, and were now “20% to 40% off”. I hadn’t expected the liquidation sale to actually change mid-week, but they did, I guess. I wonder what day the sale price actually changed, and if that is indicative of the day that I need to visit The Bay each week to try to snipe something for a really low price. That being said, nearly everything in store was still only the requisite 20% off, and although there were many bare shelves, the bulk of the items were still horribly overpriced.
I made sure to take pictures from each floor when I went back on Friday. Here’s a couple from the third floor.
From the second floor:
And then the first floor…
The poor mannequins!
Safeway also started a major reshuffling of their items around this week, which was mildly annoying because they started it either on, or just before, the monthly Customer Appreciation Day that falls on the first Tuesday of every month, which was Apr 01 this year. So for people who might only visit the store every month for the 15% off discount for total purchases over $50, suddenly they had to contend with missing and rearranged stock as the hapless employees stripped a couple of shelves of items at a time and moved them to a different place in the store. In the end it looked like they turned Aisle 2, the former “Asian Foods” aisle, into an “International” aisle with a section for “South Asian”, “East Asian”, “European”, and “British” goods.
Other stuff like juices, soup, rice, and more got shuttered around too to make room for this, and to fill the holes left in the shelves from other products being moved. And sometimes the places the products ended up in made no sense. For example, instead of uncooked Italian pasta being in the European aisle, pasta and saltine crackers were now located in the pet food and cleaning supplies aisle, eight aisles away from where they used to be:
It was just like.. what? Well, whatever.
I also learnt that while the Southgate clothing donation bins were still there, and joined by a new clothing bin, the recycling depot with all the cardboard and other big bins in the back carpark were now removed for some inexplicable reason. This was a rather well-used depot and now it’s just gone.
I didn’t end up posting this picture from Jul 31 2023 elsewhere in the blog, but this was what the Southgate recycling depot used to look like:
And now all the blue bins are gone, and the area looks like this:
What a disservice to the community. But it looked like it closed due to a request from Southgate management (local), and likely due to a number of homeless people that it was attracting.
The second set of The Bay pictures, the Safeway pictures, and the depot pictures were all from Friday, and I took them while on a big walking loop that I made during the lunch hour (and a little bit afterwards), starting at Southgate Mall and then heading east along 51st Avenue. I was not done yet though, as my next stop after that was a new Thrift Centre that had opened nearby. I was also derelict in posting this picture, but I had actually taken a picture of it back on Mar 07 2025, on my way to the McDavid’s McDonald’s store nearby that I had talked about in My Diary #181. At that point, this Edmonton MCC Thrift store was not open yet though, and just had “Leased” signs outside of it:
This time, it was fully open, and I went inside to walk around and snap a few pictures.
It wasn’t particularly big, though I do like thrift stores in general and this one is definitely a lot closer to where I live than the Goodwill down by South Park Centre. There was a separate book area that I did not photograph as well over to one side (though you can sort of see it behind the “Children” banner in the second picture above), as well as the tiniest changing room area that I have ever seen, with one single wooden stall set out by one of the walls of the large central room, with sizable holes underneath the door and walls so there’s little privacy at all. That one I didn’t take a picture of, but it was to the left of the “Toys” banner in the second photo above.
I didn’t stay for long though as I wasn’t there to shop and nothing caught my eye on a quick walk-around anyway. Very near to that thrift store was something else that caught my eye though — there was a Filipino-Chinese restaurant named Palabok House slightly further east along 51st Avenue, and they had this sign perched outside by the main road:
Friday lunch buffet for $21.95 you say? Yes. Although the sign outside their actual main door had a different time span for it (12 pm to 2:30 pm instead of 12 pm to 3 pm).
Still, it was only 1:15 pm at that point, and I wasn’t going to eat there THAT long. I might eat a lot but I’m not really a slow eater. I went in to check it out, and paid in advance like they asked — $21.95 for the base food, 5% tax, and a 15% tip later (though it’s weird that you have to tip before actually experiencing any of the service), it came to $26.51 in total.
The Palabok House restaurant interior looked like this:
And the buffet only really consisted of that one small food line above. It had one noodle dish (pancit bihon/bee hoon), two rice options (fried rice and steamed rice), one vegetable dish (tofu with mixed vegetables), three meat options (beef asado, crispy chicken, and sweet and sour pork), two miscellaneous options (green onion cake and Vietnamese spring roll), and two soup options (egg drop soup and wonton soup).
They also never noticed or cleaned up those bowls perching on the left end of the food tray there for quite some time. Yuck. Though they did regularly have a cleaning cart go by the tables and remove any bowls left there. But still, while the food choice was not very good, the food itself was perfectly fine and I just ate lots of noodles and sampled at least a bit of everything on the main food line except for the egg drop soup and the green onion cake.
I had four plates in all, with all four of them having the bee hoon noodle as the centerpiece. Plate 1:
I didn’t take a picture of plate 2, because it’s customary to forget one picture every time I go to a buffet, it seems. The second plate was noodles with white rice, a bit of beef asado, vegetables, and then sweet and sour pork though. Plate 3 follows:
And I should probably have stopped there, especially since I hadn’t planned to go to a buffet that day and so hadn’t skipped breakfast or anything, but I went for a fourth plate anyway and this pushed my satiety level from a comfortable 75-80% or so to a slightly too full 85-90%.
I’d say the food was so-so. It wasn’t great — both the rice options were dry, and the chicken was also more dry than it was crispy, but I tend not to go for that sort of thing anyway and I liked the noodles and beef stew and vegetables, so I just went with that for basically every plate. There was also a dessert section that I did not partake in:
And water and tea/coffee sections that I also did not drink from:
The smiling staff kept coming around and offering them to me, perhaps worried that I would eat them into bankruptcy or something (I don’t think this was their intention though, they just noticed that I hadn’t taken any drinks and inquired three times if I wanted water or tea or coffee). But nope, it just wasn’t my style and I didn’t find that I needed or wanted any of that. I just took my $26.51 worth of food and then left after exchanging friendly goodbyes to the staff there. That basically covered for my dinner too, and I only had a bowl of instant noodles as a late-night snack that evening.
Finally, here are a couple of balcony pictures from the week. This beautiful shot of a half-set sun was from Sun Mar 30 at 8:04 pm:
And then a picture of the moon and some stars on Sun Mar 30 at 11:55 pm, though I should really get a proper (expensive) camera for astrophotography at some point:
And one from Thursday, Apr 03 at 8:05 pm, when the tall building in the distance was crowned by the setting sun:
Due to Earth’s rotation, the point on the horizon where the sun sets, relative to my balcony, swings from left to right and then back again through the year, with the end points more or less being the equinoxes, and right now it’s on a journey towards the right (north) again.
Games
Our Suikoden II adventures continue this week on stream, though I think there is a decent chance that I’ll be done by the end of the next week. I think most of the main story is complete now, my achievement count is creeping up there too, I’ve recruited most of the recruitable characters now, and I’ve already blown past the current maximum listed hours played on the game’s How Long to Beat stats. Of course, when I say that sometimes the game lasts for another two weeks anyway, but surely not this time, right? I’ll have to start thinking of what game to play next — there are several options so we’ll see.
Off stream, I concentrated on Night Raider again. I’ve been enjoying the loot scavenging aspect of this one. There’s aspects of the UI that I wish were better, and the post-raid sorting of loot takes forever, but still I’m surprised I’ve stuck with this game for so long. I haven’t touched any other game this week (besides the usual suspects — the game I’m streaming, AMQ with friends in the afternoon, and Pikmin Bloom on my phone) and that certainly won’t last.
Also here is a big shoutout to Jahandar, who stopped by my Twitch channel this week and graced Tigey (and some random and not-so-random folks) with six gift subscriptions under a discount promotion that Twitch was running. That became my channel’s first hype train ever and pretty much doubled my earnings for the month of March, or something very close to that.
Plushie of the Week #180
Us siblings have a lot of cute turtle plushies that we are fond of, like Cruiser, the Three Musketeers, and several others, but we also have a couple that we’ve summarily ignored since we acquired them, and this is one of them. This is a… radioactive-green Ganz turtle plushie, and I believe we just hoard and ignore most if not all of the Ganz plushies that we have. At least to me, they’re not particularly interesting because I don’t have any memory of where they’re from, so there’s no nostalgia attached to that, and none of them are particularly cute to boot either.
Anyway, I will continue to feature the last 20 or so plushies that we have without names, backstories, nor much of a personality attached to them. This one is an awkward-looking radioactive turtle, but it’s our awkward-looking radioactive turtle. It was obviously acquired in the Canada phase of our lives, so sometime after 2000 and probably before 2015, but who knows exactly when!
Front:
Back:
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Tag 1 back/Tag 2 front:
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Song of the Week #157
Title: Resistance
Artist: Muse
Album: The Resistance (2009)
It’s funny, I’ve known of the band Muse for a long time but have never really been into any of their songs. None of them have really ever stuck with me, despite the band being featured ten separate times from six different contributors from my main ZOMG Discord in our Spotify Song Swap project many years ago. I’ve always felt like I don’t care to get too deep into what are basically political statements, and prefer to experience all the beauty that life has to offer instead, which is why you won’t find much of certain topics like politics on this blog even with the wide breadth of nonsense that I yap about every week. Songs that approach that line or that I consider “angry” music have generally not been songs that I have found myself liking very much, even when I do sympathize with those causes, and so I’ve never really liked rock music, compared to pop.
Yet, here we are, with a song that is basically emblematic of several conflicts going on in the world currently, in Ukraine, Turkey, and elsewhere, and will probably continue to be an anthem for other such conflicts in the future. The vector that I followed to end up on this song on though is from another far more benign source altogether — one of the two late-night streamers that I watch, ragesaq, has this song (and a number of other Muse songs) on his playlist that plays in between raids (rounds) in his extraction shooter games, and after being subject to his music for something like two months now, some of his songs are starting to grow on me too, and this is the Muse song that I’ve liked the most so far out of all of the ones that he plays.
This also means that I have no further memories attached to the song outside of listening to it while watching him play, but nonetheless it is a nice song and was a nice loop back to the Spotify Song Swap collaborative playlist above, although this song in particular was not listed there. Several of the songs that were added are also on ragesaq‘s playlist though, and I went “oh, that song” when listening to them again this weekend..
There’s also another minor reason why it’s apropos to feature this song this week though, and that is because as part of my Suikoden II playthrough, there’s a musical band that used to perform in a town called Muse City in the game that got split up due to the war, and one of the side stories is to reunite them by eventually recruiting all three members of the group. Well, as part of narrating the story, apparently I said something that sounded like they were from a band called Muse instead of a band in Muse, which Satinel noted at first and which then led Emmy_ to comment a little later on that she liked the band too. So that loops together nicely for my Song of the Week segment this week.
Memory Snippet of the Week #164
These are a couple small snippets of Ah Ma‘s funeral that Dad shared with me this week and that I wanted to preserve here. Dad was not at the bedside of Ah Ma, our paternal grandmother and his mother, when she passed on in April 2000 from what I learnt this week was cancer. We had just left Singapore for Canada in Dec 1998, and Dad had no idea if Mom was sick when he left her. Apparently, Asian people being Asians, some of his siblings were not happy that he didn’t somehow drop everything and magically return to be there by her bedside when she passed. Dad did return for her funeral and final Buddhist ceremony 100 days after her death though, and the family gathered in a temple with a Buddhist medium that was aligned with our family.
Chinese Buddhism, or at least the one that Dad‘s family was aware of and followed, was a bit different from both Indian and Japanese Buddhism, and a core tenet of the belief was that humans reincarnate for 5-6 times on this punishment realm that is the world, and learn to purify and cleanse themselves of sin each cycle, becoming a better (but not necessarily perfect) person each time. And after the 5th or 6th time, while they don’t need to be completely sinless, they should have lived a good enough life to enter the heavenly realm and stay there instead of reincarnating again.
Another Buddhist medium, the predecessor to the one that attended Ah Ma‘s funeral that our family used to use before that medium passed away, had said in the past that Ah Ma was on her 5th and final reincarnation. According to Dad, this new medium that attended the funeral was not privy to that conversation, but she told Dad and Auntie Doris that she witnessed Ah Ma seated there at the funeral in one of the chairs in front of them, and looking over the people present. Then, later on in the funeral, she said that a portal appeared and Ah Ma passed through it.
Anyway, here’s a picture of a couple of photos of Ah Ma and Ah Kong that Dad has on his table at the parents’ house as a memorial:
I do miss them, I had good memories of them as my only grandparents. And now that Dad is gradually warming up to coming to Singapore with me later this year, one of the places we will be trying to visit and find is his mom’s ashes so that we can pay our respects there. As far as we are aware, she is resting at Bright Hill Columbarium in Singapore.
Dreams
My snippet game was very strong this week… which is to say, my dream memory was very weak this week, but hey, at least there was at least something small to recall every day.
Mar 31 2025
- Snippet: I remember sitting at my desk and playing a computer game, and noticing that they were changing the game to replace healing skills so that instead of an active skill that I needed to case, white rainbows appeared above me in my room and each white rainbow gave a constant amount of passive healing to my character in the game instead. So if I wanted to improve how much healing I could get, I had the option of trying to find more rainbows in game to install in real life.
- Snippet: I was in a large maze of corridors and rooms, possibly aboard a ship, and the whole place was filled with a lot of other people socializing with each other, and was searching for a particular room where I could fight a boss mob in. I could not find it after wandering for some time, until I finally ran into Matt, who was hanging out with Tyler P, and he pointed me toward an outdoor/on deck area with a tunnel on the other end of it that would lead me toward the room I was looking for.
Apr 01 2025
- Snippet: All I remember was that at one point I was on a small, one-person wooden boat with a roofed cabin, and that the boat was automatically moving between various locations marked ??? on the map. This was part of a larger storyline but I no longer remember that context.
Apr 02 2025
- Killadrix was streaming random free games and demos on Steam and jumped onto a game that I was also somewhat interested in while I was around, so I downloaded the game as well and jumped into the game with him. It was a game where we stayed in a rundown room in a love hotel, it had a brick-sized hole in the wall that we could see the room insulation through. But the room was otherwise cozy. It was also our own base from where we had to figure out a puzzle, which I think involved the names of the five other patrons in the hotel and which rooms they stayed in.
- One person was moving into the room across from us, but was unable to go in yet as the cleaning lady was still not done cleaning his hotel room, so he was standing outside the room door in the hallway with his bags. Although I had followed a sign that said to leave my suitcase outside the door, I didn’t feel comfortable with it out there while other people were loitering outside, so I eased our room door open, smiled at the man outside, and pulled my green suitcase into the room.
- We got a couple achievements from the puzzle and I saw that the remaining five achievements involved figuring out what foods the people in the rooms wanted to eat. He said he was moving on to a different game though, since the demo version did not have the food implemented in it. The game before this hotel game was a game that involved a bus, and the game before that, as well as the game after the hotel game, were both PvP games that I had no interest in, so that was the only game that I joined him in.
- Snippet: Dad was driving me to University in his car. I told him that when I started working here years ago, Uncle Droy used to drop me and his daughter off at a carpark that Dad himself also used to drop me at many years ago, back when I studied at the University. And although it was in the University, it was on the edge of a zone of influence that Dad could drive around in. It had been years since Dad drove me here so I wondered if he remembered where this carpark was, so I sat in the back seat of the car and closed my eyes to pretend that I was asleep, while watching him, and he did know!
Apr 03 2025
- Snippet: I was playing a tower defence sort of game, except I controlled a slow-moving character who had free movement, automatically fired projectiles, and was attacking a settlement in the middle of a large game map instead. The level map was roughly squarish but the edges were jagged and uneven, which I think might have represented the treeline at the edge of a forest, and once every couple of minutes my character would be teleported to the edge of the map and replaced by a new and upgraded character. I would then have to slowly make my way back to the middle of the map again.
Apr 04 2025
- Snippet: I was with Kel in a slow-moving elevator going up, and then later back down, a building. We had the option to stop at any floor to do something, I believe it was usually to solve a puzzle, in order to acquire some skill or upgrade or affect the story plot in some manner, but most of the time we decided to just skip the level as they did not really need to be done. At least one or two of the levels might have been on fire, but not in a way that affected the operation of the elevator. Also, we were in a clan called the Jade Dragon, and there was at least one other competing clan called the White something-or-other.
Apr 05 2025
- Snippet: I was exploring a three-storey department store that was going to close down soon with a friend. Among some things I remember seeing is that the top floor sold a gold emblem emblazoned on a square cloth, whereas the floor just below that sold an identical silver emblem on a square cloth. Having either one would unlock a skill or spell that we could cast, though the gold one was more powerful. We didn’t buy either though. Another ornament on the second floor combined with an ornament sold on a third floor to make a combination skill.
- Snippet: A vampire drove me and a friend to a new city in his car, and then had to go off to do some formal registration thing, so he left us alone. We went into a building and eventually got tangled up in either a battle or some contest with another group of people. We had water and earth spells, which would eventually have let us defeat our opponents but was very slow-going. The vampire eventually finished his business and teleported back to us though, and immediately ended the conflict in our favour with his fire magic.
Apr 06 2025
– Snippet: There was a “casino person” that I was using, which was basically a silhouette or mannequin in the shape of a humanoid and without a face, and who had several large circles attached to their various limbs and joints. Each circle was a different gambling slot, where you could wager a currency and try to win a different currency back if you won. I didn’t have all the various currencies yet, some of them were only acquired through wagers while others involved some other activity in the room or area that I was in, and I was examining all the slots and trying to backtrace and figure out where to get one of the currencies to play a specific body slot of the mannequin’s.